I am a mother of five, ages 1 to 14,and looking for help on dealing with the stress my bi-polar 10 year old causes to the family. He is recently diagnosed and his behavior is erratic at best.My 9 year old was recently diagnosed with adhd and they are running more tests on her as well. The stress level to all in the house is maxed out and I don't want another day of constant arguing and fighting.My son seems to enjoy the chaos he causes and loves to annoy his siblings relentlessly.I feel more referee than mom when he is around. How can I enjoy being around my son more? Right now I enjoy the breaks I get from him than the time spent with him and I do not like that feeling as a mother. Any advice would be soo welcome. Thank you


