I should say that when I was a teen I was dubbed "thunder thighs" by mom. I weighed 100 lbs. My sister was referred to as "weird". When speaking about us to others, my mother, even when we were right there, would make awful comments about us. When I was 16 and went to her work one day she told me one lady she worked with said, "she looks about 12". She kept reminding of that. Just what every 16 year old wants to hear. I could write an entire book about small things like this, lies, manipulations, etc. Keep affirming your sis so she knows not to believe your mom. Kristin had some good ideas about how to do it.


Mom of 20 years old dd
Diagnosed BP-NOS (09/05), updated to Paranoid Schizophrenia, Consider
BP I Manic Severe (12/11), Borderline Personality Disorder (12/11)
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