AMEN and ditto to all the above! If you've read my threads, you'll know that my dd is obsessed with boys and though she did have "boyfriends" at age 12, she didn't have sex until the ripe old age of 14 yrs.-4 mos. It's absolutely true that for kids these days, sexual encounters are as commonplace as going bowling with friends was for us when we were their age. It really is incomprehensible, but true...and so very sad. I also want to say that Sarah may very well mean what she says about waiting until marriage for sex, but as you well know, our kids' impulse control and judgement leave a bit to be desired. With a little help from her friends, Sarah's best intentions may go down the drain. So, keep a close watch, as everyone else has already said.
Lynne, mom of Lilah (age 15 - Abilify 10 mgms. and Lamictal 100 mgms.)