When you first posted I was going to say that 12 is way too young to have a "boyfriend", but I didn't want to offend anyone. I agree that she should only be able to "see" a boy with parental supervision only. You are doing great with talking to her about the birds and the bees. She does need to know, but make sure you stay firm as far as her seeing him. don't tell her, "he only wants one thing" because that will make her want to prove you wrong. I don't know if she really means what she says about waiting for marriage or not, I don't know her, but even if she plans on it, things do change. Just keep up the good work on keeping up with this. I am sure it is not easy.
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