I agree with all of the above, Darlene. Your instincts seem to be telling you differently from what Sarah is saying or you would not have posted requesting advice and feeling worried at this point. I agree. They must be in the same room with you and/or dh. You can't trust anyone to keep an eye on them besides you. I agree, too, that if she admits to kissing, it probably has gone or will go further soon.

Big hugs...
Heather
Mom of Alexa, Sweet (sometimes) 16
Abilify (10 mg), Lamictal (200 mg), Concerta (36 mg), Allegra 180, Topamax at night only (100 mg) Seroquel at night only (200mg)
Attends alternative education school (Ohio)
Diagnosed 9/05 Bipolar NOS