I know what I was doing and I would watch her. I don't know that it is necessary to step in and break them up, consider that most 14 year old boys are pretty immature, however as you saw in my post they are able to have sex. I just would set really specific ground rules. I missed the boat on letting him go to her house, and her mom was a stay at home mom as well, heck she was downstairs. The whole marriage thing in theory great but with added pressure it doesn't always work, and if her friends are doing it, or if the boy pressures her you never know. In my situation I think the girl was the aggressor as he was not her first, but that is not how it usually goes.
Rebecca

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