I have no advice to offer - but definately wanted to send you some more suport! Hope you are able to get some (+) assistance soon.
Lorraine, Mama to:
Owen(11) mood disorder nos, fasd, odd, adhd,
Meds:respiradal 0.25mg morn, 0.25mg bed.

Rory(10) fasd, odd, adhd, explosive outbursts . Meds: concerta 27 mg 1x/day.

Lily(7) Patrick(6)
'wild and wooly but otherwise average!'